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You know where everything is. Would they?

Afterward is a family emergency binder you keep online: where the spare key is, who to call first, which bills are paid when. Written in your words, for the person you trust.

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A useful draft takes twenty minutes. Free to begin.

2 · Household

Trash and recycling go out on Monday night. The Wi-Fi details are on the card behind the router.

Choose anything on the table to read its line. An example household, with fictional details.

2 · Household

The spare key is in the ceramic bowl on the walnut sideboard. Lena Patel, next door at no. 14, has another.

1 · First Calls

Jonah, our brother, in Berkeley. He knows the family and our lawyer.

8 · Care Routines

Biscuit: one scoop at seven in the morning and six in the evening. The vet’s card is in the kitchen drawer beside Biscuit’s treats.

9 · A Letter for Them

Let Milo help with Biscuit. Let June choose the story. You don’t have to get any of it right.

Each line began as a question.

You write your binder a chapter at a time, in the order a household runs, answering one question and then the next. Afterward sets your answers in the order the person you name would need them.

It lives on the web, and prints whenever you want it on paper.

  1. 1 · First Calls

    Who should hear it before anyone else?

    Jonah. He knows the family and the family lawyer. His number is 510-555-0108.

    Second on the first page Tess reads

  2. 2 · Household

    Where does the spare key live, and who has the other one?

    The ceramic bowl on the walnut sideboard. Lena Patel, next door at no. 14, has the other one.

    First on the first page Tess reads

  3. 8 · Care Routines

    Where would someone find the medicines?

    The kitchen drawer beside the fridge. The list of who takes what is in there too.

    Third on the first page Tess reads

Nothing reaches them until you send the link.

When you do, they read your binder in the order they would need it, starting with the first 72 hours, with no app or account.

Addressed to

Tess

Tess, start here. Everything else can wait.

What she needs before anyone else asks: the spare key, who to call first, and where the medications are.

  • Spare key. In the ceramic bowl on the walnut sideboard. Lena Patel, next door at no. 14, has the other one.
  • Your brother Jonah, 510-555-0108. He knows the family lawyer.
  • Medications are in the kitchen drawer beside the fridge.

A link works like a spare key: whoever holds it can read the pages you shared.

Turn it off and it stops working at once, and your history shows each time it was used.

See a finished binder as the person you name would

Nine chapters, in the order a household runs.

The useful facts, and the instructions that make them usable.

  1. The people to call first, and how they can help.

  2. Keys, utilities, and the people who help keep home running.

  3. Where accounts are held, and how to find the useful records.

  4. The policies, providers, and contacts someone would need.

  5. The important papers, where they live, and who has copies.

  6. The devices and accounts they need to know about, and where access details live.

  7. Regular payments, what happens automatically, and what needs attention.

  8. Everyday care for people and pets, and who can step in.

  9. A personal note, in your own words. What you want them to hear.

What goes here

First Calls

  • The first call: the person who should hear it before anyone else
  • The doctor’s after-hours line, and the practice that has the records
  • The friend who will come over without being asked
  • A neighbor, and what they’re willing to do

The binder asks. You answer in your own words.

You don’t need to know where to start. Each page begins with one question, and the little details are what make an answer useful.

  1. Answer a prompt

    One question to a page.

  2. Add context

    The little details make it useful.

  3. Prepare the handoff

    Choose who’d need it first.

Afterward

Home · Claire’s binder

The binder is taking shape.

In the binder

4 of 9 begun

  1. First Calls Begun
  2. Household Begun
  3. Money & Accounts Nothing here yet
  4. Insurance Nothing here yet
  5. Documents Begun
  6. Devices & Access Nothing here yet
  7. Bills & Subscriptions Nothing here yet
  8. Care Routines Begun
  9. A Letter for Them Nothing here yet

5 · Documents

Where do the papers live?

One document or location per line.

  • Will and advance directive: the green folder, top desk drawer, back bedroom.
  • Car title: the file box in the office.
  • A copy of the will: with our lawyer.

Who sees this page

Tess Not shared yet

Nothing is shared until you choose.

Then keep it current as life changes.

A new key, a different routine, a small update. Change one page when it does.

We cannot read sealed details.

Each will be sealed on your device, for the person you name, before it reaches us.

Phone passcode The words will be sealed. To be sealed
Primary email password The words will be sealed. To be sealed
Password manager master password The words will be sealed. To be sealed

What the binder won’t do.

How security works
  • It points to your will. A will records legal decisions. The binder records where the will is, who drafted it, and what to do first.
  • Passwords stay where they are. The binder says which accounts exist and where to find them. Only three details will ever be sealed, and only once Family arrives.
  • The judgment stays with you. It holds your instructions and gives no legal, financial or medical advice. For that, the binder points to the lawyer, accountant or doctor you already use.
  • Every answer is in your words. Afterward suggests what belongs in each chapter. It never writes the answers for you.
The living room in afternoon light, with the garden doors open and Biscuit, drawn in ink, asleep on the rug.

Why we made it

Kelly lost his brother in an avalanche. The weeks after were a scramble for numbers nobody had written down.

We know how heavy love can become when it has to guess. Afterward is the binder we wish had been in the drawer.

James and Kelly

Tess, drawn in ink, stands at Claire’s walnut sideboard reading her phone, with Biscuit asleep nearby.
Where the key lives.

You don’t have to write it all today.

Start with one thing the person you trust would need to know: where the spare key is.

Start your binder

Then the first call, then one fact about the house. That is a usable first page.